1. Set aside time to talk with your child about expectations. Be specific.
For example, say that you expect your child to complete all homework on time.
2. Share your values.
For example, say that you expect members of your family to treat others with kindness.
3. Comment on progress and effort -- not just results.
For example, "You worked hard on that report. What a great effort! I'm impressed!"
4. Be a role model of your expectations.
For example, tell the truth and explain why it matters to your character and the ability to trust what you say.
5. Show your child you mean what you say and hold them accountable.
For example, check to see if your child is meeting expectations. Remind your child of his/her responsibility and
then check to make sure he/she follows through. Be kind, but firm.
Your child will have a positive image of himself and will have a better chance of being successful in all areas of life.
For example, say that you expect your child to complete all homework on time.
2. Share your values.
For example, say that you expect members of your family to treat others with kindness.
3. Comment on progress and effort -- not just results.
For example, "You worked hard on that report. What a great effort! I'm impressed!"
4. Be a role model of your expectations.
For example, tell the truth and explain why it matters to your character and the ability to trust what you say.
5. Show your child you mean what you say and hold them accountable.
For example, check to see if your child is meeting expectations. Remind your child of his/her responsibility and
then check to make sure he/she follows through. Be kind, but firm.
Your child will have a positive image of himself and will have a better chance of being successful in all areas of life.